THE JOURNAL OF A CONFIDENCE COACH & PHOTOGRAPHER
Unfiltered. Just like my photography.
Consider this my little corner of the internet where the filter comes off. I'm sharing the tips I wish someone had told me earlier, the stories that still make me laugh, the lessons that came the hard way, and everything in between. Whether you're a business owner trying to figure out how to show up online, or just someone who wants to stop dreading the camera, you're in the right place. Twenty-two years of experience, zero fluff. Welcome to my journal.
You Are Not Too Old To Be Seen
If you've started avoiding photos in your 40s, 50s or beyond, it doesn't mean you've lost your confidence. Discover why camera confidence can be learned and how to feel relaxed, natural and comfortable in front of the camera.
Why Do Our Faces Look Different on Each Side?
Facial asymmetry is natural, and research has shown that most people have a "better side." A study from the University of Wake Forest found that people prefer the left side of their face in photos.
How to Achieve Big Eyes in a Portrait
Use camera angle, flattering light, catchlights and expression to help eyes look brighter and more open in portraits, without relying on heavy editing.
Achieving Your Best Self in Photos: 3 Tips for Flawless Portraits
Use better lighting, purposeful posing and thoughtful presentation to improve portraits taken by a professional or with your own phone.
Here are my four top tips on how to feel confident in front of a camera.
This image wouldn’t pass as a passport photo, but it’s a great cover image.
Try four practical ways to feel less tense and more confident when having your photograph taken, from preparation and breathing to movement and expression.
3 Reasons Why Being Photogenic Doesn't Matter
If I had a dollar for every time I heard, "I hate having my photo taken, or I'm so uncomfortable in front of the camera", I would be a millionaire!
You do not need to be naturally photogenic to get a strong portrait. Good direction, movement and connection matter far more than knowing how to perform for a camera.

